When do you know when your in love or when your in crush?10 pts?

I believe being in love is when you and another person like each other for your personalities and little quirks but if he doesnt feel the same way then dont pursue him and were you dating when you told him how you felt? At first i would have said crush because thats how it was with my boyfriend i wasnt attracted to him but to his physical appearence. Also you do not as i said before want to pursue him after all its propably better if he pursues you. Please do not obsess over him if he repeatedly turns you down then he is not the right guy find stuff to ddo so you arent constantly thinking of him find a new guy plan a mall trip with a couple friends or go somewhere just dont live your life wondering what could have happend if he felt the same hope this helps! :D